Secrets About All Men
Did you know that all men are insecure?
Do you hide your insecurities so well that you actually believe they don’t exist?
That’s doing a disservice to you and to all females.
We want men who are authentic. If you are too afraid to be authentic I suggest you start working with someone to break that habit.
Did you know men also lie in order to protect this habit? They justify lying by disguising it with their ego.
He plays the “I’m a good guy” persona and I wouldn’t want to hurt her so I just didn’t tell her or I told a white lie.
It’s his own ego that' he’s protecting, not her. She wants the truth.
What ends up happening is that men only grow older and their mask grows thicker but they aren’t maturing. Without developing emotional intelligence they live as unhealed boys in mens’ bodies.
Men will even go out with females 20 years younger than them because they don’t have the emotional maturity to date someone their age.
I teach emotional intelligence because that lack of development keeps these habits in place, and is destroying our world.
You learned these habits. You weren’t told that balancing emotional, mental, physical and spiritual wellbeing were essential.
Men spend so much time in their heads, not acting on their emotional guidance, that their emotions play out as anxiety and insecurity.
They there’s narcissist’s who don’t think they need to improve. They think they are perfect just as they are. Never touching their massive insecurities but over accentuating their need for control, domination and predictability.
No room for trust prohibits the heart from taking action.
This may be why I appreciate a submissive man. It doesn’t mean he’s not an alpha, he’s just able to humble himself. He’s able to play.
Men are not meant to lead in my opinion. Our Spirit is meant to lead, regardless of our gender.
As for sex, 70% of females fake orgasms. 9 out of 10 marriages after a certain point end up sexless.
We live in a a world that normalizes war, poverty, crime and putting men in jail without self-actualization training and education.
Money has been given more value than human life.
That reality was created by patriarchal rule. I’m erecting the economy of care and I invite all who want the same to join me.
Emotional intelligence would change everything that has come before because I do not not hear and see enough men saying NO to injustices that continue to perpetuate the harming of people and our planet.
Are you as a man too busy safeguarding your ego to allow your heart the permission to speak?
The mind has one goal and it’s to be right. It seeks validation outside of itself. It is weak and able to be controlled. Unlike the heart.
The heart is an innocence that’s fierce. It’s authentic and sees no limitation.
If you aren’t living in the heart, you are not fierce. You are not authentic.
You’ve either become silent or a master manipulator. Allowing yourself to tell lies and to protect your insecurities.
Living inauthenticity and out of alignment with the guidance of the heart has to stop!
Love is tough. Love is strong.
I speak on the Law of Care. It requires heart first, which is care, then mind which is knowledge, and then GUT which is action!
If you are living out of alignment, inauthentic, replicating like technology and not utilizing the power of your heart – then you need to know a new way. Erect the law of care in your life and shift your reality, as well as, our collective reality.
I am ushering in a new reality based in Care. If you want to be a part of my gang – I want your heart on board.
Go to my website www.thecommmandress.com and hit the SUBMIT tab, read the information I request, and take advantage of the 10-15 call with me. Don’t be stupid and not include your number. Keep an eye out for commandress @mainmail.us email but go through my site.
Share this with everyone you know who is ready to pivot an entirely new direction and we’ll do this together.
Our hearts want love, beauty, wander, play, peace and joy. This and clean: air, water, food and energy are our birthrights.
We have to claim our space of grace. I’m doing exactly that and I want to be in good company if this calls to you.
I promise to leave this world a better place than it was when I arrived.
My authenticity and yours will make all the difference.
Stand with my fierce love and I will stand with yours.
Passionately & Authentically Yours,
The Commandress
p.s. My first sensory event will be digitally on October 31st. It will either be through Discord: https://discord.gg/TpGv5Drt or zoom. It will be a love offering of $13-$31 and preferably sent by mail so you can write me a nice note and we’ll be celebrating my bday together. I can send you my PO. Box if this doesn’t intimidate you. It would fill my heart with joy to receive your note. I love hand written cards/notes.